stella blissett profilesWritten By: Stella Blissett, BA
Academic Advisor  |  Aston American University


I never would have imagined sitting in a university lecture hall at the age of 34. I remember glancing nervously around the room and only seeing faces much younger than myself. I thought: “Do I really belong here? How am I ever going to find the time to attend class and study, while simultaneously trying to work a full-time job and raise my young son? Do I have the time and skills needed to earn a much deserved higher education?” The mere thought of sitting down at a computer and attending class seemed farfetched and hard to imagine. But this was my time, and I have arrived at this point in my adulthood ready to go.

I soon realized that I was not alone. There were other mature students who faced the same questions and concerns when deciding to return to school. Is it beneficial to begin a college program at a mature age? Mature students are at an advantage because we have acquired life experiences. Generally, we have matured as adults and our daily lives are filled with tasks, obligations and financial responsibilities. These skills can assist you through your studies and onto graduation.

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Staying organized and being able to quickly learn is a must. For example, as a single parent in college, I was self-disciplined, time-efficient and detail-oriented. Integrating these traits into my program while I was a student, made it more simple and familiar to my own lifestyle. I felt less stressed because my schoolwork was a part of my everyday routine. I did not wait days on end (procrastinate) for a good time to study, and I used my life skills to organize my college courses in my daily schedule. You know – wash dishes, go to work, cook dinner, work on a module, put the kids to bed etc.

As an academic advisor for Aston American University, I relate to some of our students. It can be intimidating to view your entire college program (i.e., courses, modules, grades). It is much easier if you approach it in small sections. Break it down: One course at a time. One module at a time. One assignment at a time.

Integrate existing talents and skills you have acquired in your life to assist with planning and completion of your coursework. Thus, being organized, which allows you to continue your lifestyle and personal responsibilities. Make it a routine that you are comfortable with and enjoy yourself. Going back to school is worth the effort!

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